30 Things I've Learned In 30 Years

Understand and respect different opinions more and judge less. AKA Agree to disagree.


Don't ruin an apology with an excuse


Supporting another success won’t ever dampen yours.AKA Be happy and supportive of others


Be genuine inside and out.


Consistency is always key to growth and change.You won’t have to start over if you never give up.


You have to put your air mask on first before you can help out others. AKA take necessary time out for self help as needed.


When it comes to friends it is completely about quality not quantity.


A lack of planning on your part does not cause an emergency on my part.AKA organization will always come in handy in the long run


Humility is always not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.-CS Lewis.

The person who talks bad about other people looks worse than the person they are talking about.

Don't fight fire with fire. The flames will only get bigger instead of burning out.



Two things define a person: Your patience when you have none and your attitude when you have everything.



If you don't like something change it, if you can’t change it, change your attitude don't complain -Maya Angelo 

Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful.


Looking left and right takes your eyes off YOUR Goals.AKA don't compare yourself to others, focus on you.

Acknowledge your mistakes and regrets and learn from them.AKA  Don't be cliche and say “ I don't regret anything”


Keep all levels even and high and strive for balance.  AKA what good does it do if you are at 90% for one and 10% at another?


Laughter is one of the best parts of life.

Organize your life so you have no excuses.


People have to want to change for themselves, you cannot make them.  AKA You can take a horse to water but you cannot make him drink. 


Don’t ever let any number define you.
What ever you decide to do, make sure it makes you happy.AKA If you don't enjoy it, why do it? 

Make sure you don't start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don't value you. Know your worth even if they don't.

It’s never too late to start over. If you weren't happy with yesterday, try something different today. Don't stay stuck, do better. Everyday, week, month and year is an opportunity to do it better.

Love the parts of you that don’t change, some are just a apart of “who we are”.

You are not better then anyone, God creates us all equal and we are in his eyes AKA don’t act entitled

Exercise to be healthy, not skinny and eat clean to nourish your body.

Understand and set personal boundaries.


Don't do something with the expectations of praise of attention.


Learn, love and respect your credits and criticism. You can gain so much more by but being open and not taking things personal.